Pet Parenthood through Life and Death
As a pet parent, I don’t look at my pets as just another animal.
I love my pets. They are a part of my family. They are my children and I am their mom. I worry about them the same way I would a child, i.e. make sure they’re warm and comfortable, make sure they are healthy and happy. As a professional pet sitter, I know my clients feel the same way about their pets.
With this in mind, we know our pets will not live as long as us and that the day will come when we have to say goodbye.
It’s a thought all pet parents dread and don’t want to think about; but is a fact that all pet parents must face. Many people don’t understand the emotion behind losing a pet, wondering why someone would grieve over a dog or a cat. Unless we have other friends or family who understand our love for our pets, it is hard to talk about our grief. The pain of losing a pet is real and we should not be embarrassed about it. If we spent the time loving our pets, how could we just forget them and move on without grieving for them?
Of course, we want to make sure our pets live long and healthy before we let them go to Rainbow Bridge. We don’t even want to think about Rainbow Bridge until we know it’s time.
If we observe and listen, our pets can be our life coaches.
They are the most patient, kind and forgiving life coaches we could ask for. Since they’re a part of our family and are such great teachers, it should be obvious that we do everything within our power to make sure they are as healthy and happy as long as possible.
In her book, The Healing Art of Parenthood, author Nadine M. Rosin discusses her emotional journey with her beloved dog, Buttons.
As a proud pet parent, Nadine understands the powerful emotions that are involved with loving a furry or feathered critter. I’m on my way to purchase Nadine’s book today. After discovering Nadine M. Rosin’s website, I was so touched by her story and am very intrigued to read about her relationship with Buttons, her dog that was diagnosed with cancer at an early age, but lived 11 more years after being diagnosed with cancer.
Did you know that cancer is the number one killer in dogs and cats?
Unfortunately, approximately 80% of pet parents don’t know anything about pet cancer. Sadly, after many dogs and cats are diagnosed with cancer, their life ends shortly after. How is it then, that Nadine M. Rosin’s dog Buttons lived 11 more years after being diagnosed with cancer? Fortunately for Buttons, Nadine did her research and discovered holistic health care.
When it comes to your pet’s health and happiness, do not leave any corner untouched…..
Every little thing counts, from the type of food your pet eats, to the type of flea treatments you give your pets and so on. To get started, check out this website to learn how fabric softeners are toxic to you and your pet. Here you’ll find more information on holistic health care for your pets.
To learn more about Nadine M. Rosin’s book, The Healing Art of Pet Parenthood, watch this video. The book is a great gift for any pet lover who acknowledges and appreciates that their pet is not just another dog or cat but a part of the family.
Remember, our pets depend on us to care for them.
Through educating ourselves, we can help our pets live longer. Please stand up for your furry or feathered children, continue making memories with them, keep them healthy and don’t be embarrassed to grieve for them when it’s time to let them go.
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November 5th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
Smart post. I often talk with owners whose dogs have cancer and who are struggling with the diagnosis. Often the pets haven’t given up when their parents definitely have! Cancer doesn’t have to be a death knell.
November 12th, 2008 at 11:38 pm
Thank you for this great article, for all your great works with the animals, and for purchasing The Healing Art of Pet Parenthood. I can’t wait to hear your reaction after reading it! Wishing you vibrant health and precious moments. Nadine (and Buttons)
March 9th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
I am very touched after reading your blog, in part about losing your pet, I recently just lost my beloved companion “Ferbie”, she meant the world to me, she taught me compassion and how to love unconditionally, I was too struggling with the fact that people did not quite understand what she meant to me, and some were even insensitive, go get another pet, move on, she was just a dog. So hurtful, she was my family and I loved her as so, I have also purchased the book by Nadine myself after coming across her website about grieving when one loses their pet companion, I am excited to read it and learn. I dedicate this to the memory of my beloved companion, best friend and family. Love you “Ferbie”